I think I have been working on me.

I do volunteer work every Saturday at my church. I see a therapist once a week. I am at the office all the time because of a new position I have at work. I go to the gym. And I am drafting the legal separation agreement.

I never contact my wife.

When she is ready to come back to marriage I will be here. But until then I have an entire life which doesn't involve her anymore.