Okay been texting WAW for the past half hour. I have a meeting set with WAW for tonight at 11PM at her parent's, we're going to the park to talk. I plan to talk to her about options we have where we could technically still call off our divorce and still have her move to Florida for awhile. There's options for the two to coexist. Then perhaps 6 months or so down the road if she decides she does want to live there permanently, we have to decide to then go forward with the divorce or I'd have to think about myself moving there with her. I think this way I am still supporting her decision as Pilot says, but at the same time I will get my proof that she is serious about reconciling at some point. I mean there are married people who are forced to be apart for long periods of time because of careers, etc. As long as she is willing to still be my wife, I am willing to let her go down there and do what she needs to do for herself. This, of course means no dating for either of us but she's made it clear she has no desire to date anyone for at least a year, kind of a long time I'd say, even for me to say that, but I can't say I'm displeased that she feels that way.
Of course I'll think hard on this all day today but the meeting is set for right after I get out of work tonight. I will keep you guys posted.
Last edited by ItHurts; 08/17/1406:32 PM.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
