Shining, I think the key for me has been to get centered in MYSELF and with my Higher Power. Find that safe place where you are a separate human being from your H...his decisions are about him and your decisions are about you.
Get quiet and find that "happy place" for lack of a better phrase. Maybe, if you don't have the energy today, God is saying, "REST."
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson