Wife having emotional affair part 2

[3kids]

She is not living with the OM. Me and the wife where talking about trying to find a place with out buying a house with out buying a house with OM. She said this is not something that she is looking to do. But she feels it is her only choice. We talked about all of her family and friends are offering her a place and none of them want her to do this. She said she is so confused because she doesn't know what she wants. She could live with us at my place or with him. She said the only thing that she is for sure right now is that she wants her own place to figure out what she wants in life. I let her know that the kids where not looking forward to living with the OM. And that our friend ship would be affected by this. Letting her know that if they moved in together that I would still care about her but the relationship of ours would now be on OM to take care of. That was in the second conversation of the day. So I will just have to see if that is her choice. I can't stop this and maybe it will bring her happiness. I can only be there for my kids. The choice is up to her. Trying to think positive about this but I think I already know her answer. Patience patience patience. Think positive and sometimes it will happen.