ItHurts - Thanks, it's nice to know that I'm not alone (and I'm sending positive thoughts your way). It looks like almost all of "our" stuff is going to her new place. I'll be renting a bed nearby, and hopefully finding a small house to rent in a month or two.

I'll be pretty much starting over fresh, with nothing of my own (maybe a comforter and pillows). The house we built will be in her new house, with the kids.

Thats another thing that has me a bit off. I've been a single dad since Feb. I've spent so much time with S8. He is my best little buddy. We do everything together, and he is a great little guy. It is going to be weird not having him around ALL the time. Though I am sure that W will have no problem with me coming over at night to throw the frisbee or football with him, or letting him come over to play xbox.

So, the future is up in the air. But I do have something to look forward to (throwing the football with S8, and practicing volleyball with D16).

Now, I am off to my todo list. Write some more, read a bit. Eat a good breakfast and then continue packing up.


Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015