Hi DBers!
Just checking in, not much to report. Have been feeling quite positive overall in the past few days. WAH has been texting and calling just to ask random questions. I feel like he is coming up with excuses to communicate and offering to help me in small unnecessary ways. I have been trying to remain distant and mysterious without being rude. Basically I don't answer most texts right away, taking several hours to 24 to reply, or not responding at all if it is not important.

But best of all I feel better. My appetite is back, which is both positive and negative since I'd like to lose 10 pounds smile and I'm not as obsessed about what the WAH is doing.

Over the last few weeks I realized that I had a lot of gut instinct feelings that something was wrong in the relationship for a few months before BD. I found some journaling I did in January that basically predicted exactly what happened down to every last detail! Scary. At the same time BD was a huge surprise. Odd.

But now I have the gut instinct that he will try to come back. Not now, not tomorrow, but someday. I'm not sure if I will still be around, or if it would work out. I just have this gut feeling that although he says he is done, he is still on the fence and one day will realize he made a mistake. I honestly have no evidence that this is true but my gut instinct is often right. Anyone else have this experience? Or is it just denial?

Hope everyone is having a nice weekend. I'm trying to line up some dates thanks to pilot. haha.
Hugs, LisaB

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.