So this is the text I sent to h just before ( I'm going to drive everyone nuts tonight! ) " thank you for your honesty tonight about going to kids town today and for spending the time to go through parts of the book with s7, our situation is hard on all of us and I certainly don't want to make it harder on you. like I said before you are my best friend and I can't imagine not having you in my life, but I also understand where your are, at this point, and whatever it is you need me to be or do is okay...x"
his response straight away "thank you for coming today...it was a great day for all of us...w, I'll always be in your life - you are my best friend too...I will not ask you to be anyone other than yourself....wouldn't change you at all....x"
WTH, I need help here, please, am I pursuing? Do I back right off? Do I back off a little bit? this is by far the hardest thing I have ever done, and I'm the mother of twin boys!!!!