Now: as far as my situation goes...well, it's going ok.

I'm trying to not mind read. Tonight, she texted my from her room about some of the stuff from the really bad time. I think she's trying to work through the hurt I caused her. I think that because she basically said that. "A lot to absorb. I don't want to talk about it anymore."

I think processing and asking me and telling me how she feels beats yelling at me about it or calling me names. So I'll take it. We've been getting along very well aside from that. Having dinner together and talking about things in our days.

We're not piecing yet by any means. But maybe we're inching in that direction.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.