You're not entirely in limbo. You can work on you. Like Sandi said, what are some things YOU can do to soften a little? To have a little empathy? It's HARD, I know. We all know. No one got anywhere by being stubborn and hard. If you're waiting for her to contact you there's so many things you can do and work on in the mean time. Take it from "waiting" to "working" and your whole mind shifts.
