This is terrifying - I hope you understand

[Shakspr]

Talked to my D21 about divorce on Friday. W had already told her, unbeknownst to me. Whatever. D is not happy about the idea and is responding well to me as I have told her that I want some time with her Sun nite to begin healing our relationship. Anyway, I told her that while I do not want a divorce,that I WILL NOT put her in the middle of any of this, and I will continue to respect her Mom and create no drama.

D offered me a little gem. She said "You need to get her outside herself, outside her own head." The statement seems RIGHT, but I have no idea how to implement. Any advice, folks?