Well I guess I just don't understand things. The wife has called me three times since she got home from work today. I guess a positive. One time was to just talk and I told her about letting me know when she is going to let the kids in on her plans with OM. We talked a bit and she said it was because she feels she has no other choice because she can't afford to rent a house because of money and I stated well I have to pay child support. So there's your money(since I have to because of stopping house payments on old house my lawyer said I had to or back support would pile up). She changed her toon and said well maybe I could find a place. She called again to see what we could come in agreement with and again no straight answer from her. She said she was emotionally drained and was going to take a nap. And she said she would call me back later after her nap. I was thinking she wouldn't call me back. So me and the kids went on a bike run made dinner and started watching the football game that the oldest is at. To see if he came on to the tv. And low and be hold she called me back. This time she didn't bring up any child support and just called to talk. She said she had a great nap and fell a sleep watching Couples Retreat. FITTING MOVIE! She tried to get some cake eating time in with the kids and me. By saying I should bring them over and look at there new teachers. But I said we where busy. She that's alright I guess I'll get back to getting the garage sale stuff done and she said that was so emotionally draining that she was not looking forward to it. I validated. And we soon ended the conversation.

Good that she is calling me at least. Guess I'm just struggling to find more out of it.


M36/W30
S13,D10,S6
Married 4.5 together 12
Bomb 1/14
EA/PA OM 1/14 still going
Served 2/14/14
Separated 3/14
D paused 6/14
6/15 divorced