I want my husband back, the life I believed I had.
I want my dream back, my funny farm, my 501C-3, My rescues, the work we did together.
I want to have that innocence I once had, when I believed GUBU was incapable of doing this to me.
But I get that all this ^^^ is not within my power.
So here is the part you might be aiming for:
I want to be healthy, vibrant, and happy.
I want to continue to do the things I love: Music, Art, Dance, Animals.. all the rest.
I want good friends
I want to be financially stable so I can do the above ^^^.
I want to continue to learn and grow as a person, and as an artist/musician.
I want my life to be interesting and fulfilling.
I want peace, harmony, and beauty in my life
I want emotional connection with others
IF I were to have a relationship. (Funny this didn't pop up as a "want") I would want it to be based on honesty, vulnerability, commitment, fidelity, with someone who loves me for ME, who values what I value, who is KIND above all. Someone who supports me in my endeavors, who allows me the freedom I need to enjoy the above ^^^^.
Someone who treats me well, is emotionally stable, and able to give of himself completely. Someone who thinks he is lucky to have me.
Someone who is a peer and can match me intellectually and in other ways. Someone who will challenge me, who is assertive, strong, and dependable. Someone I can respect and admire for who he is. Someone with great character, and who is independent. Someone I can rely on in good times and bad.
If he were easy on the eyes, that'd be great. But that doesn't matter to me as long as he is well-groomed, healthy, happy, and has a positive outlook.
I guess at this point, I might as well add: "Or She"!
You never know. The home team might have an advantage, why not check it out?
But I'm OK alone too. Better alone than with someone who doesn't meet at least 70% of the above.
Surely there's more...but this is good for now.
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?