Ss, your separation is only a couple of days old so for the time being I would monitor what's going on, keep reporting here for third-party perspective, and record how you feel. When it's time for you to lay boundaries you will know.
In the meantime, work on detaching and discovering what you want your life to be like and start moving toward that.
WRT your daughter being ok with things at the moment... Is she getting more of his attention now than she did before? It sounds like it. That would explain why she's ok at the moment.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
