Wow that is a stupid circle of logic, I agree. :P
I guess I would say just wait and do nothing. If you want to file for D later you can go ahead and do that. No need to push it now if she isn't.

Thanks again for the insight on the guy's perspective on my thread. Much appreciated.

Hugs, Lisa

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.