thanks sandi for your input. I guess im just hoping that things may be turning around. Being peacefull is a good thing to let the dust settle, we have been separated now for like 5 months and BD for 8 months. Just gonna keep being cool hand luke. as far as I know and what everyone tells me there is no other man in the picture, she is super busy and stressed on her first year. I complemented her as a way to show that im not just a friend, im more than that wink. anyways I guess this is how things begin, slow and steady.


Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14