2.5 Months After D-day...and I wait

[DBinSF]

At the end of the day, my goals with my Ex are to:

1) Dissolve the emotional blockage that I've caused through the affair
2) Make her feel heard and understood
3) Begin a back and forth that allows her to feel safe and attracted to me again

Right? Isn't that what we're trying to do here? And if none of that is ever going to work, I need to move on with my life.