And for people following the thread, the "she" I'm referring to in the first paragraph above is the woman who edited my letter of last resort to my ex. It's not my ex. I reference my ex lower in the post.
Me: 39 - W: 35 Together: 2 years, no kids My Affair: 1.5 years Affair ended: 4/9/14 Affair revealed: 5/19/14 Last Contact: 8/2/14