I see it from her perspective. She is upset because I can't get over my hurt. It frustrates her. She believes my hurt feelings have destroyed our marriage.
She is right it has. The way I handle my pain is poor. I blame her when I am in pain. I didn’t have emotional pain until I met her.
I feel this problem has an easy solution: She can stop emotionally abusing me.
We want he same thing.
We both want to be married. We are not on opposite sides.
I don't understand why we can't work together on a solution.
