Sandi, you're correct. I was in denial of a PA. I knew the clues added up, but refused to believe that this person that I cared about so much would do something like that to me. I don't know why I thought my situation was any different than others on here.

On the flipside, I feel like finally discovering that it was a PA has put me in a position of being able to back up my boundary. I had problems sticking to my guns in previous situations because I wasn't 'there' yet. With what I know now, I'm 'there.'