Update: so finally spoke to H. I think in fact he may not be with OW as I was fearing, apparently he has some more major work issues. I think he may really be struggling with his new role at work, lots of new things to deal with and learn. We had another really good light, airy chat. We even chatted about what I could bake him next
I called him to let him know my brother in law would be chain sawing some trees and was he ok with that, did he have any opinions, etc? I think he was impressed that I'm taking control of so much house stuff. Typically I would fret and complain that stuff is not getting done, now I'm just dealing with it myself. A great 180.
So glad that I'm learning to take a breath, document my suspicions here and NOT react to H. Of course I will continue to check things like CC regularly. Trust but verify.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
