Well every body I need some help on this one.

Wife told the kids yesterday that she is thinking about buying a house or having OM buy a house so she can live in it in a different town. The kids are really upset about this because they would have to live with OM part of the time. I am deeply hurt by all of this because I thought I was starting to see some good sings from her. I know she has been really stressed about finding a place to live and having money issues.

I need some help as far as how to react to this. I would like to show no emotion. And simply state that she need to inform me about big changes like this for the kids. So I can be prepared to handle the kids better. I have to admit this one really hurts me and if they move in together I don't know if I can keep trying to hope on this marriage.


M36/W30
S13,D10,S6
Married 4.5 together 12
Bomb 1/14
EA/PA OM 1/14 still going
Served 2/14/14
Separated 3/14
D paused 6/14
6/15 divorced