Thanks Train. I appreciate your words of encouragement. I will get through this. The hardest part is patience, the second hardest part is acting positive and happy. MWD comments about people trying to save a M in my situation are right on the mark. "It will be the hardest thing you have ever done in your life".

Me: 45 W: 44
M: 20 T: 31
S 20, D 13

W affair ended 5-13-14
W confessed 5-27-14
W wants to R 4-1-15; I'm not sure
Living in same house, separate beds