Haha Maybell, sorry to laugh but that is a funny exchange. But at least he basically agreed that you are gorgeous! smile Of course it is not all about that, but him knowing you are attractive can't hurt. Imagine if he had responded to the MC "Really? No I don't find her pretty at all."

Thanks Joe for the feedback. Of course he could be thinking anything, I have no idea. But yeah I guess better that he was looking at me instead of at his phone or at the floor.

I'm working on a list of signs that I can look for to see that my DB, 180s etc are working (or not) so that I can monitor and adjust my behaviors. It's a bit difficult though. I can put things like "contacts me regularly" but that could also be friend-zone. I can put things like "tells me I'm incredible and he wants to get back together" but yeah I guess I would notice that huge sign. I need to figure out the key things to look out for that are not just friend behaviors.

Hope everyone is having a nice weekend.
Hugs, Lisa B


Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.