So H was offered a coaching position at the local high school. Unfortunately, practice starts at 3 and H doesn't get off work until 5. He emailed me about it yesterday, which is the one I did respond to...validated and said it was a tough decision to make- dream job of coaching (and being a teacher) or continue on a career path you have told me repeatedly that you don't like anymore!
He then replies that he'd take a pay cut-yes you would, but it wouldn't matter if you'd come home dumba$$, cause when I finish my degree, I'd be making what he does and he would still be making. 2x what I do now! Plus it's not about the money....hello light bulb?
Maybe this will help him put his life into perspective. I will support him with what ever decision he makes, while we are together. He needs to think REAL HARD about his life. I'm not telling him what to do...and I think that's what he is wanting.
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
