What about the mirroring? Sitting here while everyone is in bed. Looking at the settlement agreement. Part one is custody. I will work on this part first and discuss with WAW this weekend. I will work on part two for next time. I am not rushing this, but moving forward since she wants that. I figure if she keeps going to therapy, I need to help her see I am moving towards her decision. Took S3.5 out tonight to a back to school thing. Had emailed wife earlier this week and said I wanted to take him. So, she told him at dinner that night that I was taking him. He was excited. She never mentioned going, so I took him. She could have gone, but I was not offering. Here is something strange. Are these the little things I am supposed to notice? So, last night, I was ready to do my story reading and he wanted mommy. So I said well, I am going to go ahead and go. She look shocked and said "where"? I told her shopping to avoid weekend crowds. Gone an hour. Had stopped by big box store for shaving supplies. This morning, she sees the bag, empty, on the counter. Receipt was where she asks me to put them, so she can enter them in....she says,"oh, you went to...?" I answered yes, on my way back home. She then asked, "what did you buy?" I felt this was odd, as she appears to not care. However, as soon as I am A. Not the first to talk, B. Do my own thing, she gets chatty and asks questions. Today at lunch, I went shopping and bought a shirt and tie. Said nothing when I got home with S3.5. She saw the bag, I moved it to the dresser and continued on with the evening. Nothing was said. I know she looked in the bag while I was in the shower. She has made a point a few times the past few weeks to come into the bathroom when I am getting out of the shower. Tonight....I turned and caught her looking. Made me feel great. I said nothing and left the room. Bought some nice soap and aftershave lotion too. Settling in for a long DB LRT. Looking forward to some discussions here soon. Thanks for all your help and motivation
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
