I agree. I think that typically the LD spouse does NOT see the issue first. I do think there is hope for the HD spouses out there. My HD husband has been trying to convince me that there's a problem for almost 3 years! I always really knew there was a problem. But I never understood what was "wrong" with me and so I always just blew it off.
For me I think I have discovered that getting off of Wellbutrin was the answer, but for other people it may not be that simple.
Also realize this...who in a male/female partnership is going to be more likely to write in to the Oprah show???
