Ss, I told close friends and need-to-know people. Otherwise, I try to avoid it. H & I still have each other as spouses on Facebook. He has told very, very few people. I've told more but that's because of the kids. One friend I told early on because we were working on a project together and I cracked in the middle of it. People are still finding out, which is sometimes awkward.

Shaving your legs is GAL if you make a project out of it!

And I've started cooking for myself so I have leftovers to eat. Otherwise I found myself eating Hot Pockets and stuff, and considering I've developed high blood pressure since BD, I'd really prefer to treat myself as worth the effort. Can't afford to stroke out while my H is out of the country considering our nearest relatives are 600 miles away. But I only drink when I'm with friends. Some habits we DON'T need to take up, and a bottle of wine tastes best shared anyway.

And Lisa, yes, thanks, I'm GREAT no matter what! Will definitely use that. smile


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.