Hi Casey,

Just offering support - I can relate.

I felt the same way re my h about a month ago, but could not act in haste re my child (who went through major change before the mlc event).
I know what you mean re:
- having to do everything
- the WAW/MLC hanging around re: lack of choice > $$
- room for contempt is 'compounded' because space is shared ...

I have often felt that I am 'shooting myself in the foot' - working for someone who hates me & is USING me. You're on a 'different spot' on the grid in comp. to me, so your approach at this time must be suited to your goals, your plans (although our sitch[s] are similar).

The more seasoned DBers will help you here.
Take care, p.


pbetra
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M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017