raliced,

I love your responses to "how are you". Thank you.

Your Friday night suggestions are great, too. Going to a movie alone is something I've never done but I'm not sure I'm ready to do that yet. I feel silly cooking for just myself but I think I might do just that. I have a delicious bottle of wine a friend brought over and a facial doesn't seem like a bad idea, either. I shaving my legs GAL?

I just solidified plans for D6's 7th birthday which is next Saturday. The three of us are going to Disneyland for two full days, hotel, character breakfast, the whole shebang... It'll be a blast and a great opportunity to just BE my changes. To show MYSELF these changes. If H sees them, great. If not, I will and that's meaningful.

Just got back from a coffee date (I had lemonade!) with a friend. She was talking about her troubles with her husband and of course I did too. She completely understands and it was great to chat with someone who gets it (other than all of you).

How do you all tell your friends that you're separated or having serious marriage trouble? I'm curious about how that goes down. Most of my friends are also friends with H so it's a bit awkward. I'd love to hear how it's all going with you in this department.


M: 37 H: 36
M: 13 T: 18
D: 7
Bomb: 6/30/14
Separation: 8/11/14

Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.