My divorce has been final for a month now and I just found out that my 2nd XH is with a new person. I feel gutted after no contact of over a week from him and feeling better I am having a setback. I emailed him to say that I was done and I don't want him in my life at all. I know that it was a moot point as we don't have contact but he wanted to be friends which I can't do. This has been a hard road for me and I realized that I need to fix myself and get through this pain and process to be in a better place. We don't have any kids together and I am relearning the better way to be a mom to my kids. I am also making amends with my estranged sisters and reaching out to family. I have lost a few friends but have gained or kept a few that are helping me. I worry that I will stay stuck and of feeling the pain. I guess how do you know when it's getting better?
Me 34 M 2.5 (Both 2nd M) My kids-D 17,S 16,S 12 BD 2/14 D final 7/2014
