Wow what a convo for you! I felt like it was my sitch. I agree with the others though, no more circling ( but do as I say not as I do...lol). Actually I have gotten better about those types of conversations. H tries to bait me, even today...but I just responded once and let the rest go.
H knows you want to be with him, you told him. And I get the "I'm with him and OW isn't." I'm doing the same thing. It's hard.
I agree with Raine. My life coach has a saying that we should always be "H.O.T." with our spouses: Honest, Open and Transparent. Again, I'm struggling just as bad if not worse, but the advice I'm reading and hearing is good.
Good luck with your date tonight. I hope real H shows for it!
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
