Stacey, you are doing so great! Good for you that you can be upbeat and not say anything about OW! I am super impressed.

Like the others have said, try not to think too much about him and the OW. It doesn't help you. But yeah I know that is easy to say and hard to do. Someone said they imagine a giant stop sign when they have unwanted thoughts.

It sounds like being positive and friendly might be your best assets for now, and also good that you are consulting an L. It's good to know you'll be ok financially.

Good luck! We are on your side! Hugs, Lisa B

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.