Hi Shining,
I laughed and laughed at what your h was texting. Let's see, you were m to him and he knows you probably better than anyone. Does he really think that saying you are going out with a "group" having dinner and then hanging at someone's home means what? Dinner and an orgy? Unless that was something that you guys did while you were M (I don't think so, don't worry!) why in God's name would you suddenly become the type of person who goes out in groups and him think it was a "..sex thing..?!? You must have said 10 times that you weren't even dating, let alone out having sex! How crazy can they really get? Do they really believe that every social interaction is either to find a "date" or get laid? Maybe it's the going back to teenager in their mind! I wonder if he thinks you were planning on playing "Spin the Bottle" and "7 Min.'s in Heaven" LOL!

I commend you on your ability to NOT say all the things that he left himself open to! Too bad that the funniness is overshadowed by all the pain they are causing.

Listen to Raine. She is one of the smartest cookies here!