I hope they are. I do worry though. I am sure the OM and people around her are poisoning her mind.

I don't know is this is normal, but it seems my world is consumed by fear of divorce, and the impact it will have on me and the kids.

Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015