No problem, Nitty.
As for what he is saying about "It's no use...." is normal MLC speak, I get the same. I too get the Sh!t from everyone about not just dumping my W and wanting my M to work. I also get the "poisoning people against her" mainly my D's at this point. (I haven't but her fear that I will is so strong she is CERTAIN I will!). Hang in there Nitty, we both will get through this!