Ok, your MC seems to analyze you, your W, and OM. Telling what stages she and OM are in .
But is she actually working on anything with you guys? How to change behaviors? Is she going you get to the root of the problems and for you tools on how to work towards a healthier self? Or is she just goin to keep pointing out the obvious?
And analyzing OM isn't going To get you anywhere . He is not the root of your problems . They obviously existed long before he came along.
The work has for to be done on you. That's what you need to worry about .
I would go and find a good IC who focuses on you and who gives you tools to work out your issues.
Just my $.02
Actually we are way past analyzing. She is actually excellent. My original IC just listened to me and told me to leave my wife.
The wife went to see the MC for IC and then they both recommended I go as well. So now I know all that bothered my W about me. We have done a lot of work.
The IC says I am about 80% to where I need to be! but the last 20 is my biggest fault. She also Pinter out that our marriage was dysfunctional and she wants to ensure that if we R we have an amazing marriage.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
