That TM ("I want to repair our marriage. If you do not, then we must resolve our finances") was what I was thinking of sending in response to H's complaint that his work is hard and he hasn't done any D paperwork.
The last time he ever said he was willing to try and fix anything was in March. It took him about 3 days to withdraw that statement.
Since then his attitude has been: "It's no use trying to save us, you'll just be rubbing my nose in sh!t for the rest of my life."
And this last couple of weeks his attitude has been "I tried to save us, but you pushed me to this."
I'm feeling like I don't know up from down anymore. I take sh!t from his relatives for defending him so much and hoping our M will survive when they're sure it won't. Then I take sh!t from him for poisoning everybody against him and pushing him to D.
M:54, H:55 T:33, M:27 12/13 BD: EA 01/14 BD: PA, H leaves 03/14 H & OW break up 05/14 H says he will file for D 08/14 H initiates D 09/14 H wants to R 12/14 Still bungling our way through R
