Okay. Has she ever carried the verbal into physical attacks?
I don't think the answer is to let her continue screaming, hoping to wear her down. You may or may not be the root cause of all her issues, but from your description she takes it out on you. Have you ever seen her yell and scream at others? (I apologize if you've mentioned this already.)
Personally, I would have had to meet alone with that counselor later to get an explanation of his reversed opinion, but that's just me.
Last edited by sandi2; 08/15/1404:46 PM.
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