Sorry to hijack a little but thought of you today cause I am hAving major mother issues.

My analogy regarding my mom is-

She is like the Missouri police department she brings out the heavy artillery and then wonders why people riot.

I know finding peace with my mother is the key to bringing peace to my soul but it is so so difficult. My relationship with her is so so hard. She is a totally alanonic like your mom and says all these subtle and not so subtle things to me. It really burns. She is my mother. I feeling hatred towards her - it's so not good. So not good.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13