I'm struggling with the same thing about how my H is acting. He's been saying a LOT that he wants to be closer, he wants to be friends, and I've been telling him that I'm afraid of being hurt again. He says he doesn't want to hurt me either and that he doesn't know what he wants yet.
We have three kids so I hear from him a lot and sometimes the line between communicating for the kids and communicating ABOUT the kids with each other is really blurry.
I know the more I hold him at arms' length the more insistent he seems to be about connecting closely.
25yearsmlc and Train are two women who had success with their H's. T0324 seems to be making a tiny bit of progress and her situation is really, really dire. Train's is very recent and her situation was also extremely dire. But at the end of the day, does it matter? If my situation is the 1% it's still the one I've got to deal with.
Hugs back atcha!
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
