Thanks CC - yeah I was thinking along the same lines, a cheap buy out - I told the bank this morning that I was not going to fill out the paperwork, it is easier to just let it go and not deal with him anymore, this would only prolong it and yesterday I just felt "done" with the drama and stress of it. Letting it go.
It is a relief to know that the check delivered and cleared and I can stop wondering about the whole thing. It's closure. Moving forward, not looking back. Thanks for responding, it just helps me to vent this stuff in my head here with people I know understand. Have a great weekend!!


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs