LoisB - great comments - I've had some of those wow moments and when you figure out that there IS a purpose and a silver lining, that you really have grown and learned something from all this - it really is a great feeling. So difficult to see in the early days but later on you do realize that there is definitely blessings in it as well.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs