I never did reply to her e-mail regarding the bank accounts, and she didn't bring it up again. She can probably sense that I am uncomfortable taking any forward actions towards separation or D.

This morning, I sat next to her as she was just waking up on the couch and initiated conversation. That probably wasn't a good idea. She looked so beautiful just lying there and I felt I needed to be near her. I know, bad BAD BAD!

We made some friendly small talk (about the upcoming vacation, etc) then our daughter woke up and sat on my lap.

I realize that was a bad move on my part. Detaching is really hard for me, especially with her living in the same house and acting (on most days) like everything is normal.

M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!