Having your quiet strength here on the board has been one of the many privileges of posting here. You never cease to amaze me with your pearls of wisdom and perseverance.
For what it's worth, I feel like you, Optimist and I have been with each other every step of this journey. Maybe it's because we have had so much in common the past year? Maybe it's the duration for all 3 of us? Maybe it's because we're just old?
Seriously, I think you have a fabulous outlook on life and some great goals. Your sons have a terrific mom and your H has a terrific wife. I hope he can work through his stuff to see what you have to offer.
Big hugs and take care,
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."