Dealing with ongoing affair -which may now be over

[PeterV2]

Thanks Shodan & Wonka. Yes, I'll post the draft here for feedback & input. It's going to get very personal so please bear with me. I've been mulling it over in my mind. Yes she seems to be opening up a bit (R talk) but at the same time seems to be shutting me out a bit more too (no kisses). Maybe it's a balance she's trying to keep.

I spent quite a bit of time with her today. Had an 11am apt at the RH with a prospect, then I went back to work for a while and then another 2pm appt at the RH after which I had a short nap in her room (15min) before our 4pm apt with a new employee. Then I left before that meeting was over to meet my son for his 21st Bday. Stayed out all evening with him. W was texting me but I didn't respond. She finally phoned me just as I was coming home and we talked for a while. She wanted to know where we went for dinner. I didn't tell her. Just said we went back to my son's place after for a visit. Actually I was at his mom's (my ex's) place for dinner but I didn't really want W to know because she's still uncomfortable with my ex.