Today, I noticed a new apartment complex under construction a short distance from my son's school is advertising pre-leasing. I sent a text to W to let her know about it and that there are 2 & 3 bdrm units available. She has talked about getting a visa so her mom can come and stay here to help with S; this preceded the current crisis.

Anyway, no reply to message, and none really expected; after all, ignoring messages from me is nothing new since BD last Sept. I see pushing her out to be on her own a crucial step towards starting the DB process. W is heavily cake-eating right now and avoids me even though we rarely see one another.

Anyone else have similar issues with a WAW who would not physically leave even though they were emotionally checked out? How did you resolve this?

Me37, W30, S7
Married 10yrs 05/11/04
ILYBINILWY 22/09/13
Disc. OM1 26/09/13
Disc. STD from OM2 03/02/14
Affair Confession 21/06/14

W and I share same apartment (for a few more days).
W isn't pushing for D.