So quick question, and it looks like I'm going to need another thread soon.
I took my kids to the country fair where they inadvertently ran into their mom. They noticed from a distance their M texting on the phone, and my D asked who she's always texting. My older S said I know, and then told me the OM name. He had brought this up with me before, and asked that it be our secret.
He said today I could tell his M that he has seen the messages. I'm not sure if I should mention it to her or not. I have scheduled IC for my kids, just to deal with what is going on, and so they have some of their needs met. My concern really is to tell her to let her know. I know it upsets my son because he told me...but I really have no control over what she does with her phone and the kids.
Let it slide, not creating guilt, have it brought up in kids IC, or take a stand for my children? Thoughts? Don't see this good well in any manner