Quick to listen, Slow to speak

[holdingon]

I have a friend that I have written about here on the BB... she is the one that inspired me to post about forgiveness a while ago. Anyway... she called me one day, kind of out of the blue to see how I was doing. And I asked her how she was doing and she said that her H and she had a huge fight. I felt like a door had opened so I aksed her "have you ever forgiven him for his A" (which I knew, just by listening to them talk to each other, she had not). And she said "no, cause he never apologized."

I suggested After the Affair. She went out and bought it, is reading it, is liking it and she said they had one really good talk so far. Gosh, it makes me feel good to think SOMETHING good is coming out of all of this... Now, if only my sitch....