So lets put this a little in order.... He doesnt contact you at all, neither her family and you can't move on because you still looking for an answer...why he has no compassion or his family right? Why they dont care how much this hurts me right?
Well we dont know why is that but I think you still have a person in your life which is you. Basically without his love you feel that you are nothing, that normally happens when we give love to others in order to love ourselves, once that love is gone we dont love ourselves and we feel misserable, worthless and all that.
Look there are some relationships that end and another ones take a breake and get restored, this is what you have to see. You have no relationship anymore so you dont own him nothing neither he does. If he is with another person and he is happy with zero issues or 1000 of them is not your problem anymore. He left and you are by yourself right now, its not the end of your life, it might if you dont work on yourself, but pretty much if you just put a little effort in taking care of yourself it will not be the end.
He left for whatever reasons and its not coming back, focus in that because thats the only thing certain today, why would you want a person to be with you if that person doesnt want to be with you? Wouldnt be nicer to be with somebody who really wants to be with you?
Well so take all this time by yourself to focus in repairing the damage, into taking care of yourself and improve those things that you dont like, people that has no empathy for you dont deserve you in their lifes.
We respect their decissions but again, if they dont show empathy that doesnt make them really great human beings...
You are worth it of loving yourself, I went thrue the same you are going thrue and here I am, improving what I dont like from me and pretty sure I will not be involved with people who has the caracteristhics of my last relationship.
Just focus on yourself in what you dont like and embrace what you like from you and make it even better.
Time will bring you a nicer relationship with yourself, there is a lot of not worth it people out there and believe me, its not all your fault.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
