H. How about tomorrow? Saturday I am going on a fishing trip with (work vendor). It might be Monday if not tomorrow or today
You : I have plans tomorrow, let's try for Monday.
H. Hot date? Nevermind it's ok Not my business
You: I have plans with some friends. Let me know if you want to get together Monday. Gotta go, ttyl
The round and round is exhausting, isn't it? You really don't owe him an explanation of your plans, and you certainly aren't obligated to cancel your plans to suit him. If he wanted to see you so badly, he could have cancelled HIS plans.
Think about it this way... Even if you were to reconcile somewhere down the line, you need to be in a good place, have a social life outside of him and your marriage.
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
